Saturday, October 17, 2009

Given from the Heart..

Melissa is my co worker, my sister in Hello Kitty lol. She is one of the sweetest people you would ever want to know. Melissa hair has always long and very pretty, a few days ago I saw her and was in shock it was cut off very VERY short. She looked cute, of course but I did wonder why she had cut it. While walking up to her she was talking to another co working and explaining she cut her hair to donate it for a wig for cancer patients. I smiled and walked over to her and talk to her about it. She said she had gotten really involved with information about patients losing there hair and wanted to do something to help. I was proud of her, proud to know her, proud that she didn't care about her hair being long she cared MORE about helping someone. I had asked her for a photo and she allowed me to post this. I wish my hair were long enough to do this. Instead I want to do something like donating, I have not did an outfit in years but I plan to open my clothing store again in Second Life and make an outfit and donate the Lindens to this cause.

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***** MELISSA'S OWN WORDS *******

So many people complement on my hair how it looks so pretty and healthy and to never cut it. As the month of September some people may know is leukemia awareness month and being touch by some of the stories of families I thought what can I do besides sent in a check with and ok amount. Yes my hair! I've always been so proud of having my long hair but I decided to donate it to locks of love. Locks of love is nonprofit org. People log in to locksoflove.com and fill out a donors form and send in human hair. It needs to be at least 10in long but if u send more it's welcome the more the merrier. Just the idea of being able to help a kid in need makes me feel like a better person. I know it might take a while to get use to the haircut for some of my family and friends but as long as it comes from my heart everything is fine. My hair will grow again and so will yours so get donating!

October the month for PINK!!!!

Friday, October 16, 2009

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! THIS FOOL NEEDS HIS ASS KICKED!! AS WELL AS LOSE HIS SEAT AS A JUDGE!

NEW ORLEANS – A white Louisiana justice of the peace said he refused to issue a marriage license to an interracial couple out of concern for any children the couple might have.

Keith Bardwell, justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, says it is his experience that most interracial marriages do not last long.

"I'm not a racist. I just don't believe in mixing the races that way," Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. "I have piles and piles of black friends. They come to my home, I marry them, they use my bathroom. I treat them just like everyone else."

Bardwell said he asks everyone who calls about marriage if they are a mixed race couple. If they are, he does not marry them, he said.

Bardwell said he has discussed the topic with blacks and whites, along with witnessing some interracial marriages. He came to the conclusion that most of black society does not readily accept offspring of such relationships, and neither does white society, he said.

"There is a problem with both groups accepting a child from such a marriage," Bardwell said. "I think those children suffer and I won't help put them through it."

If he did an interracial marriage for one couple, he must do the same for all, he said.

"I try to treat everyone equally," he said.

Bardwell estimates that he has refused to marry about four couples during his career, all in the past 2 1/2 years.

Beth Humphrey, 30, and 32-year-old Terence McKay, both of Hammond, say they will consult the U.S. Justice Department about filing a discrimination complaint.

Humphrey, an account manager for a marketing firm, said she and McKay, a welder, just returned to Louisiana. She is white and he is black. She plans to enroll in the University of New Orleans to pursue a masters degree in minority politics.

"That was one thing that made this so unbelievable," she said. "It's not something you expect in this day and age."

Humphrey said she called Bardwell on Oct. 6 to inquire about getting a marriage license signed. She says Bardwell's wife told her that Bardwell will not sign marriage licenses for interracial couples. Bardwell suggested the couple go to another justice of the peace in the parish who agreed to marry them.

"We are looking forward to having children," Humphrey said. "And all our friends and co-workers have been very supportive. Except for this, we're typical happy newlyweds."

"It is really astonishing and disappointing to see this come up in 2009," said American Civil Liberties Union of Louisiana attorney Katie Schwartzmann. She said the Supreme Court ruled in 1967 "that the government cannot tell people who they can and cannot marry."

The ACLU sent a letter to the Louisiana Judiciary Committee, which oversees the state justices of the peace, asking them to investigate Bardwell and recommending "the most severe sanctions available, because such blatant bigotry poses a substantial threat of serious harm to the administration of justice."

"He knew he was breaking the law, but continued to do it," Schwartzmann said.

According to the clerk of court's office, application for a marriage license must be made three days before the ceremony because there is a 72-hour waiting period. The applicants are asked if they have previously been married. If so, they must show how the marriage ended, such as divorce.

Other than that, all they need is a birth certificate and Social Security card.

The license fee is $35, and the license must be signed by a Louisiana minister, justice of the peace or judge. The original is returned to the clerk's office.

"I've been a justice of the peace for 34 years and I don't think I've mistreated anybody," Bardwell said. "I've made some mistakes, but you have too. I didn't tell this couple they couldn't get married. I just told them I wouldn't do it."